Post from Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Earlier this year I joined Facebook and slowly started building my friends list. Eventually I got in touch with some kids from my high school and each time I found a new one I would look through their friends list to see if I recognised anyone.
One girl was friends with Craig S, a boy that was a couple of years older than me that lived locally. I first met him when I was 11 and we took an instant dislike to each other, I am pretty sure I started it at the local milk bar. He was trying to open the glass door at the same time as me and I didn't like the look of surprise on his face, so I called him a 'perve' which was a word I had recently learned from No. 96. From that moment on we were mortal enemies and would swear and snarl at each other when our paths crossed, especially smoking under the pine trees next to the railway line at the top of Sherlock Road.
When I had to start high school I was a bit nervous as he already went to that school. Other than throwing yonnies (rocks) at me on the way home from school along the train line and slagging a big greenie on my school dress the battle didn't have time to get too ugly as I started going out with one of the toughest of the Croydon boys and was immediately granted instant respect from the boys at my school and in the area.
I looked through Craig's friends and saw he was friends with Dani and Peter W, a Melbourne Sharpie couple I knew from Iceland in 1976 (when Pete bashed my Croydon Boy boyfriend). I was happy to see that they had married and were still together. Because I didn't think they would remember me, I didn't bother contacting them, but I looked through Dani's photos to see if she was in contact with Deb, I was pretty sure she would remember me as we spent a bit of time together at Rose Tattoo, the footy and a few other places. I found Debs profile and I sent her a message saying "Hi from Julie Mac", I have a picture of you sharpie dancing at Rock on the River in 1977.
She messaged me back and I could feel the paranoia dripping through the monitor. Who are you? How did you find me? Are you sure its me? I sent her the pic and a pic of me and Skeeta my Eastern sharpie boyfriend from that time. She was still really suspicious over the next couple of email/facebook exchanges as she couldn't remember us. She added Jacko because she remembered him and messaged the Whitesides' on Facebook and Pete added me. He got online and started asking after our old mates from 76/77. They had moved to Queensland and hadn't heard much of anyone since. As he listed the names I told him what I knew of each person and which ones I might be able to find. Dani and Pete were due to come to Melbourne in July 2009 and he wanted to organise a re-union with as many old friends as we could find.
Pete started searching for names on facebook and quickly found Donny B so I added him and the three of us started our mission.
Pete asked after Stef and Dave, I passed on Stef's email address which I had after seeing him at a Westside Sharps 40th birthday in 2002 and then inviting him to my 40th in 2003. It was easy to find Stef's apprentices JLK, Jenny, Linda and Caryn as I was still on Caryn's Christmas card list.
He then asked after Skeeta. I had recently found his two sisters on Facebook, so I contacted them, they gave me his mums phone number and she gave me Skeeta's number so I passed that on. That put us in touch with Mick and Kim also.
Then it was Hayden. I rang Katie S, I girl I used to know from Croydon and asked her if she knew Hayden's daughters names as he had married the older sister of our friend Lisa that was murdered. Katie gave me the names and I found one on Facebook, I sent her a message asking if her dad was Hayden and if so, could he please contact Pete on his mobile so he could meet up for dinner. It was his daughter and she said her dad would love to come. One we found Hayden, we then had contact with his brother Darryl and his wife Connie (she gave me my first genuine Conte cardigan when she retired from being a sharpie)
Col Creed was easy to find as he was a legendary tattooist in the Dandenong area.
Bobby had an unusual surname and I remembered the country town he grew up in so we looked to see if any of his family still lived there. After a deliberate red herring by Bobby's sisterinlaw, Don rang his mum and she gave Don Bobby's number.
Col had seen Phil P at his workplace in Fountain Gate, so Deb went there looking for him. He didn't work there anymore, but because Deb is such a sweetie, one of his old workmates gave her Phil's phone number.
It took me five calls before I found Woodsy. I rang Chap from St Albans and asked if he knew where Woodsy was, he said 'no, ring Stef'. I rang Stef and for a change he was nice to me, last time he saw me at a funeral he said "what are you fucken doin here". I looked at the nice car he was locking and said 'get fucked, did you steal that car?' Stef said he didn't know where to find Woodsy, but to ring Cutugno, so I looked up his phone number in the book. I went to their wedding 27 years ago, so I was glad when Cutugno's wife remembered me and she told me the suburb where Woodsy lived. The first number I rang was the wrong one, but the second number I tried, Woodsy answered. I said "Hi Wayne, it's Julie Mac, we are having a reunion for the Melbourne Sharps". Cool as a cucumber he said, "Yeah, I've been thinkin about that"!
Since then we have had five reunions in six months and we are making plans to track down a few more of the gang.
Photos taken of our reunion at Young and Jacksons (before we got thrown out) are on this site
http://skinsnsharps.com/galleries/sharpie-reunion-at-young-and-jackson-2009